There are such men out there. I have done my best to be one of them. The saddest part for me is that it seems so many women misjudge gentleness, and loving kindness for weakness. They often abuse , mentally and verbally, men who do not treat them, as they have been treated before by other men. It can be a sad, and lonely place, to be alone with little hope of finding a good woman, who will take as good of care of you and your heart, as you will and do , her and hers. Women want a man such as myself to understand they have been hurt.... and I do understand that. Still, to hurt me in the ways they often do, and then say "I don't know how to be loved" Is as hurtful to me, as the other is to them. There is little, if any sympathy ,for a good man, who struggles to find a good woman.